The Wedding Photographer

by Matt Stratton on June 29, 2009

On Saturday, I had my first experience as a “paid” photographer – I was hired by a friend to photograph her wedding.

I’m not going to lie – shooting a wedding is a very high-pressure situation, and I was nervous as heck going into this. The thing with wedding photography? No reshoots. You get one chance at everything – and if you miss it, at the very minimum you have an angry bride. Nobody wants that.

The wedding was outdoor, which made the photography (on paper) so much easier. Natural light is a good thing. Of course, the ceremony was in the shade – but not a nice, even shade…it was that lovely (and annoying) dappled shade. This was a challenge to deal with. I could have evened it out with flash, but I did not want to be obtrusive. So what did I do? I metered for the shade and ripped bits*…hoping that at least one shot for each section of the ceremony would turn out.

The reception was indoor/outdoor – there was an enclosed pavilion where the food and beverages were served. Luckily, the exterior walls of this were almost all window, creating some lovely light for photos. And it was that beautiful “window light”. I got more than a few gorgeous shots inside there.

I now have over 1,200 exposures to go through in Lightroom and process. I’ve taken one very preliminary pass, and have flagged about 75 shots that I know are keepers. That’s a good start. I haven’t processed anything yet, of course, except for one photo of the flower girl that I already emailed to the bride…and received a very positive response to:

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I had coffee today with my friend Lou, who kindly had lent me his old 20D as a second body to shoot with. The first thing he asked me was “So? What did you learn?” In a nutshell, here’s what I replied with:

  • You HAVE to have a plan. Like, a checklist. I had a checklist of shots to get – and the only shots I got were the ones I wrote down. I had ideas for some other shots the day before, but since I didn’t write them down, I didn’t remember to shoot them.
  • You may think you have a lot of memory cards, but you probably want even more. I had 18GB of CF (1 x 2GB, 2 x 2GB, and 1 x 8GB) and I filled them all. Granted, I was shooting in RAW (since the lighting was tricky and I need all the help I can get), but I was getting nervous about space towards the end.
  • You must bring two cameras. Shoot like a sports photographer. In my case, I put my Speedlite and my 24-70mm f/2.8L on my 40D and my Sigma 10-20mm on the 20D. The 20D with the wide-angle was locked down on a tripod during the ceremony, with my wife/assistant on the trigger, while I remained mobile with the 40D. After the ceremony, I took the 40D and went off to shoot portraits with the bridge and groom, while my wife took the 20D with the 50mm f/1.8 to get shots during the cocktail hour. Even if you don’t have an assistant, that second body with a different lens/flash set-up let’s you be a lot more flexible quickly.
  • Don’t assume that people will co-operate with you. Nobody at a wedding is interested in co-operating with the photographer except the bride – and maybe the groom. Family and guests will ignore your requests, and it sometimes requires effort just short of physically picking people up and moving them to get them where you need them for the shots the bride wants. Don’t take it personally – just be professional. This is easier said that done.

Have you shot a wedding before? What tips and tricks did you pick up? Contrariwise, what advice might you have for budding wedding photographers as a previous bridge/groom/wedding guest? Share your insight in the comments!

* – in the pre-digital days, folks would talk about “ripping film”, i.e., just shooting tons of frames. With digital, it’s not quite right to say you are “ripping film”, so I refer to it as “ripping bits”.

  • Im photography my best friend's wedding in a month. I'm so nervous, because I am by no means a fantastic photographer.
    It's mostly a matter of not knowing anyone else who she can get on a tight budget. (Or, ya know, for free...) If I'm not charging them, not as much pressure? Right? Right?! Yeah... didnt think so... *sigh* Not gonna be fun
    .-= Ashley´s last blog ..Crappy Daytrip, Sick Kitty, Catchy Song =-.
  • It looks like the photos turned out well. Congrats to getting a photography gig too.

    I hope our photographer is as planned out as you were! We walked Cantigny on Sunday and it provides a lot of opportunities for photos and we're going to see what we can get done in an hour. I promised to trust the photographer and just go with it knowing that some things just can't be planned and you never really know what will work out until you try things.
    .-= Cherie´s last blog ..Garrett Popcorn Shops to Re-Open Michigan Avenue Store =-.
  • I agree with Grandy, that is a lovely picture. Perhaps a great picture like that could be put in black and white and made into some anniversary greeting cards I think many people will appreciate the thought and gesture. Make sure you choose a free site too.
  • I am LOVING that picture of the flower girl. The pedals in mid-air are GREAT!!

    I've never photographed a wedding, but have had to play the singer once or twice. It's very nerve racking.

    Hope you're well Matt!! :)
    .-= Grandy´s last blog ..A letter to Grandy's Bank =-.
  • Well I have to say, based on the first picture, I can't wait to see what you come up with! I love how that picture looks, great capture.

    I can not imagine every shooting a wedding - definitely high stakes, and loads of angry people if you don't do well/get the right shots.
    .-= Ari´s last blog ..And now I’m broke… =-.
  • Thanks, Ari! I'm hoping to finish up all the processing in about two weeks - I am going up north to Michigan on Wednesday and won't be back until Monday night, so I won't have a chance to really work on the photos until next week. But I'll be digging deep into them when I get back...
  • Having been on both sides, the most important thing is communication. Understand what the bride (and groom, but mostly the bride) want. Make sure that your definition of "formals" and their definition of "formals" are the same. Likewise with PJ or whatever style you happen to shoot.

    Get used to using fill flash. If you're going to do weddings, you'll need a top-end flash. I recommend (and swear by) a Metz. You'll also want an external battery pack to speed recharges. I can point you to a friend of mine in FL who makes them.

    Shooting with an assistant is absolutely required IMO, especially in the formals. You'll want someone to herd folks while you're composing the shots.

    Work on your action shots. In your case, go to Fizz and take photos of dancing. It's fast moving, it's low light, and (if you're using a flash) you really can't just roll at 8fps. Get confidant with action so that you know you can get a shot in a tough lighting or moving situation. That'll free up your mind a little bit to work on improving your compositions, checking for extraneous items in the background, and looking for better locations.

    Don't be afraid to help keep things to a timetable or to help coordinate. As the photographer, you're the one who's really controlling when things are happening. Embrace that role, because if you're scared of asking a bride to wait a few more moments so you can get a shot, she'll know. :)

    That's all I can think of at the moment. Glad to hear it all worked out!
  • Thanks for the insight, Keith. That's a great suggestion to practice by taking photos at Fizz - I just have to get over my flash-fear I think :)
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